“You can't be successful at everything. You can't have it all....A lot of times the ideas of what it means to be successful are not our own ...they may come from our parents, television, movies or other media, What I want to ask of you is not that we give up our ideas of success, but that we make sure they are really our own.”
by Alain de Botton The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work: t/c